I am SO incredibly excited today to share something special with you: It’s the very first Guest Post on Lady Breaks!

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I am so inspired by this amazing woman and her family it’s not funny. Linda and Cam Bailey are about the funniest, warmest, giving and down-to-earth couples I know. Their personal struggle with infertility has only increased their capacity to love and love and love! It’s just amazing! I am honoured to be able to share Linda’s story with you today.
Thank you Linda, Cam and the rest of the family x
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“You look way too young to be a grandmother!”
While I know this comment is meant to be a compliment – and as I am only 35 years of age, it is also very true – I can’t help but be reminded that people have a fixed idea of what family should look like.
A couple of children, two middle aged parents and a few grey haired grandparents thrown in; that’s what all families look like, right? Well, our “family” begs to differ.
Just last week I realised that my husband, Cameron, and I started trying to conceive nine years ago. We have not been successful in having children naturally but that does not mean our house is empty.
Seven years ago Joy joined our family. She was 13, in foster care and in need of a home to live.
My husband and I have always had the philosophy that we don’t open our home to foster children, we open up our family. Joy didn’t have a positive sense of what family really was and I think only now, as we help her raise her own child, does she understand what a healthy family means.
Don’t get me wrong, we’re by no means perfect! We just have a desire to help those in need. Sometimes we get it right and other times we just need to try again.
Joy became very independent when she turned 18, so we decided to extend our family a little further. Twelve months ago, two brothers – four and five years of age – joined us. These two boys have turned our lives upside down! They are so full of energy, laughter, cheekiness and questions. Every day brings new challenges but also new opportunities, as we help these young boys grow to the potential they were created for.
Just when we thought we were at capacity, our family changed again. At the beginning of the year, Joy discovered she was pregnant, and with the father of the baby taking flight, we found ourselves as the support people for our daughter.
Her gorgeous son entered the world (and our family) one month ago and has brought forth more love than we thought possible.
I can confidently say, as a barren couple, our family is full! And my advice to everyone is to embrace your family, no matter what it looks like.
While Cameron and I were childless we enjoyed taking holidays, throwing ourselves into our local church and providing cheap board for some young adult friends. As the kids have come along we’ve dedicated ourselves to be their advocate and to give them all the love and support a child should have. And now we’re grandparents we’ve enjoyed supporting our daughter while delighting in having a newborn in our house for the very first time.
None of this takes away the sting of being infertile, or the challenges that foster care brings, but I refuse to waste my life waiting for my “own” child when there are thousands on our doorstep needing the love and affection we have to give.
Linda Bailey.
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What a beautiful, amazing family! I’m so blessed to know them.
If you would like to hear more from Linda, she regularly writes about her life, faith and God on her own blog, Daily Devotional.
xo
What an inspirational story! Love your honesty and generous heart Linda. Love to you, Cam and your gorgeous family. xxxxxx
What a beautiful story and good on you all for being positive in your lives.
You are both amazing role models Linda. You are loving, caring,funny and joyful. Proud to call you friends. Xx
What a beautiful account of your journey, Linda. And how blessed you all are. Blessings to you all. Jo xo
You guys are amazing! Always aware of reality, sometimes not so great, you two always live with love, fun & joy.
Linda, what a beautiful example you are to so many other couples out the who are struggling to fall pregnant. I Iove that you refuse to let circumstances get you down, and push on with the job of loving those God has placed in your path. You inspire me! God bless you guys
Love, love and love.
wow what a beautiful story. I love how your family has come about in a different way even though I am sure there is so much heartache there too. Just lovely, this has really made my day this morning. So lovelyxx
That’s awesome Linda. What a beautiful story and a family that many people
Don’t get to experience either. I bet joy and the boys are so grateful
To have loving parents like you and cam. X
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